BehaviorComplainer

Child behavior blog

Practical educational materials for everyday challenges with children and teenagers of all ages.

20 articles
Child Behaviour Parent calmly supporting an upset child

Aggression in Children: A Developmental Stage or a Warning Sign?

Aggressive behaviour in children, such as hitting, biting, pushing or throwing objects, can bring up strong emotions for parents. A one-off incident does not necessarily mean a serious problem, but it does need a calm, clear response.

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Parenting Parent calmly setting a boundary with a child who is angry

My Child Hits Me: How to Respond Step by Step

What should you do when your child hits you or other children? Stay calm, stop the hitting, keep everyone safe, and clearly state that hitting is not allowed. Once your child is calm, teach safer ways to express anger.

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Parenting Parent supporting a two-year-old through big emotions

Beyond the “Terrible Twos”: Autonomy and Boundaries in Everyday Life

The period often called the “terrible twos” can bring protests around getting dressed, shopping, leaving the playground and other everyday transitions. Learn how to understand your child’s behaviour without labels and respond with empathy and clear boundaries.

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Child Behaviour Parent comforting a child after preschool pickup

Calm at Preschool, Meltdowns at Home—Why?

Some children are calm at preschool all day, then cry, shout or refuse to cooperate after pickup. Learn why these afternoon reactions happen and how to support your child.

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Child Development Parent calmly supporting a child through big emotions

Helping Your Child Regulate Emotions: Age-by-Age Support

Big reactions to ending playtime, hearing “no,” or a change of plans do not necessarily mean your child is misbehaving. Learn how to support emotional regulation with calm presence, clear boundaries, and age-appropriate strategies.

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